Let's talk about sex

I guess you never expected me to breach this topic ever!! I love to read, and stay informed!! Anything that educates me in a positive way, I read!! Well, for one, I am a woman, I am human, I have sisters, I have female friends, I will get married one day and have daughters too. The list is endless. I just want to open your eyes to one out of the many perversions about sex, so you dont get exploited when one nincompoop tells you lies in the name of love.

Recently, I read something online, and this prompted me to share with you. You see, the knowledge you hide from people, or shy away from, you may learn and read about it from the wrong source.

The first we talked about sex was pornography, today is on ANAL SEX!!

I guess this post is mainly for married folks, and those undergoing courtship with the intention of marrying their partners to put to practise, and singles can learn from too.

Many churches, during courtship, ask questions on your thoughts on sex, not just the usual "have you both had sex?" 

The concerned leaders want to know what you think or perceive to be right about sex, so that even in marriage where sex is legal, the bed would remain undefiled. I want to beg you with everything in me, ask your partner his/her thoughts on sex, find out the things he likes before walking down the aisle, so you dont get tied down into an everlasting sexual bondage.

Now back to anal sex, this is when the anus, which was originally created for passing excreta, is used for sexual purposes. Even defining the term disgusts me.

Now lemme share the story I read online. This lady was married to a doting and loving husband, he provided for her, she never lacked. Their sex life was great until he came up with the idea of anal sex, which she found repulsive. She blatantly refused. He stopped eating her meals at home, called everyone to talk to her but she refused to buldge. Her husband also refused to take no for answer. He spiked her drinks in the night and violated her. She would wake up in the morning feeling sore around the anus. She started avoiding him. He devised another means, her food!! And continued with his perversion. Well, she couldnt take it anymore, and decided to teach him a lesson.

She spiked his drinks, used a sex toy on his anus till she was satisfied, left it hanging there, packed her belongings and left to her parent's house.

Well, some may say she was harsh and all...I feel she was even kind. I would have used a pipe on your anus. Nonsense and ingredients.

People do wicked things to others because they do not feel the pain.

Bottomline, anal sex is demonic. Apart from the spiritual implications, there is health implication, spread of infection, weakening the elastic muscle around the anus which helps you hold poo. Most people who go into anal sex require surgery later in life to repair damage, or spend their lives wearing pampers. The choice is yours.

So what do you think about the woman's actions?? What would you have done??